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Female Ejaculation: How to Become a Pro at Squirting

perfume bottle squirting to mimic female ejaculation

Female ejaculation, or squirting, is everywhere in porn. Yet in a recent survey, 72% of women who said they don’t squirt regularly or have never squirted expressed an interest in trying it. So, what’s the score?

What is squirting?

Firstly, female ejaculation and orgasm are not the same things. An ejaculation is the release of fluids, rather than the contracting of muscles and releasing of endorphins that accompany orgasms.

Originating in the Skene’s gland, the fluid is drained through the urethra and is expelled at the point of ejaculation. The Skene’s gland can only be stimulated through the G-spot, as it is situated directly above.

If it comes from the urethra, is it urine? Yes, and no. A recent French study recruited seven women who self-reported that they squirted the equivalent to a glass of water during orgasm.

Biochemical analysis of the fluid showed that two of the women were squirting urine. However, for the other five, the analysis showed that the fluid was mainly made up of urine, but it also contained prostate-specific androgen (PSA) originating from the Skene’s glands.

The study concluded that female ejaculation is likely to be an involuntary urine emission and that the presence of PSA is simply the residue of ‘true’ female ejaculation.

When it comes to squirting, some say they squirt out a teaspoon, others say a cupful, and some claim they squirt even more than that. Some women can squirt over and over, and some just squirt the once – it’s all normal!

Prepare your body

Our bodies all function differently, and while scientists still don’t know the ins and outs of female ejaculation, we do know that when it comes to sexuality, there is not a lot of predictability and science to back it up.

But that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t try, so what are you waiting for?

  • Relaxation is a key aspect of squirting orgasms, so ensure you stay calm as you prepare. Create a chilled environment; dim the lights, light candles, and play some music.
  • Learn your G-spot! This is most easily done with a well-designed G-spot toy like Rocks Off G Spot Vibe (€28.70, kinky.co.uk). Alternatively, you or your partner can use your fingers. Be vigorous and intense you’re your efforts – a strong pressure is usually needed to properly manipulate the G-spot. Keep your arm stiff and shake it back and forth while applying pressure. This isn’t the time to be soft and gentle. Experiment until you experience the unique ‘need to pee’ sensation that comes from G-spot stimulation.

Choose the right toy

  • While everyone has a different favorite and everyone’s anatomy is unique, a G-spot stimulator is recommended if you’re trying to squirt for the first time. The Lucid Dreams No. 39 (€28.70, kinky.co.uk) is a sexy multi-speed vibrator that offers the firm G-Spot stimulation that most women need to squirt. Start by rocking it gently against your sweet spot, then power up the pleasure, starting its multiple vibration patterns for unparalleled sensation.
  • If you want to take it up a notch, combine G-spot and clitoral stimulation with the Infinitt G-Spot Rabbit Vibrator (€63.11, kinky.co.uk). Designed with 2 vibration functions and 12 suction functions, the Infinitt vibrator will send waves of dizzying vibrations for toe-curling sensations!
  • Once you’re suitably aroused, it is time to lube up. The stimulation required for squirting is hard and fast, so a bit of lube on your finger or toy will prevent friction and ensure you get the most from the experience.

And remember to enjoy the journey – it’s about patience, relaxation, and being comfortable if it doesn’t happen for you. Squirting orgasms are not the be-all and end-all. All you can do is give it your best shot.

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