People are always searching for new ways to boost their sex life, and getting pegged is no exception. More and more couples are realising that this is a great way of bringing some extra kink into the bedroom.
The only issue is that pegging isn’t as easy to try as massage or role play. Instead, it comes with some handy rules your girlfriend should know if you both want to have a satisfying experience.
What Is Pegging?
Pegging is actually pretty easy to explain; if you’re a total beginner, it’s when one partner uses a strap on to penetrate their partner anally. Contrary to popular belief, it doesn’t always need to be the woman wearing the strap on. That isn’t the best part, though. Pegging has come a long way from being fetishized in porn. With women being more open about their kinks, straight, lesbian, and gay couples are now embracing their love for it more than ever.
Safety tips to remember When Getting Pegged
Start slowly
When people get excited about anything new, it’s tempting to jump all in. Though pegging can be fun, you can’t rush into it without starting slowly. If you do, this is a sure-fire way to put you off pegging for life. Instead, ask your girlfriend to start with a small, beginners strap on or anal toy to warm up, before moving on to larger, strap-on dildos. Remember to bear this in mind if your girlfriend would like to be pegged, too. The more comfortable you become, the more you can consider upgrading to a larger model.
Use plenty of lube
Everyone knows you should use lots of lube for anal sex, and it’s the same story for pegging. Lube is one of the only ways to make sure the person being pegged has a comfortable and memorable experience. Lube helps the strap on slide in without any issues, and can heighten the physical sensations the receiver feels. With pegging, you should make sure to use water-based or silicone-based lube, as oil lubricant can cause split condoms if you choose to have sex after.
Practice makes perfect You won’t get pegging right the first time around- and that’s ok. If you keep trying one night and it isn’t working, take a breather and try again another time. If you’re both stressed about making it perfect, this is when safety issues can arise. Spend time practicing with each other, or use your own ‘Me Time’ to practice on your own to find out what you like, and where your limits are. When you feel ready, make sure to set a safe word for extra measure.