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Anal Toys: A Guide

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t’s true; when it comes to sex toys, women get a better selection than us guys. However, this doesn’t mean that there’s not plenty of toys for us to play with. There’s still a great variety of super sexy, super kinky toys for men to choose from. This guide will focus on the variety of anal toys that are available, and how they will rock your world. Anal sex toys are popular for one simple reason; because it feels fantastic. The sole purpose of these toys is to massage your prostate – so be prepared for a mind blowing orgasm!

Choosing The Right Toy

Anal toys are both enjoyable and easy to use. Nevertheless, there’s a few things to take into consideration before purchasing your first toy. Firstly, buy from a respected store and if possible, check the quality of the toy before purchasing. Choose a toy that is made from plastic or silicone, and avoid toys that are made from wood or glass at all costs. Anal toys are generally broader at the base to prevent it for being sucked too far into the rectum – keep this in mind when browsing, to avoid any nasty surprises later on.

Before you get to the checkout, make sure that you buy plenty of lube. The anus and rectum don’t lubricate on their own, so they need a little help. Lube will reduce friction and will make the experience far more pleasurable. There’s a variety of anal lubes available, but any lube will do the job. Just make sure you apply plenty of it before the fun begins.

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When it comes to anal toys, they can be broken down into four main categories; butt plugs, anal dildos, anal beads and anal vibrators. Each of these toys with stimulate the prostate directly or indirectly, so there’s no right or wrong toy for first time users. Simply choose which one takes your fancy!

Butt Plug

Butt plugs are specially designed for anal stimulate, with a tapered tip for easy insertion and typically a flared base for safety. Using a butt plug can add a new dimension of pleasure to both masturbation and sexual intercourse. What makes a butt plug so special? During the male orgasm, the sphincter contracts. A butt plug keeps the muscles open increasing the pressure, and increasing the intensity of the orgasm. Butt plugs are also great for beginners, as the tapered shape allows you to experiment with how much penetration you can take.

Anal Dildo

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Dildos are generally the most popular of the anal toys; this is due to their simplicity and the variety that’s available. When choosing your first dildo, go for one that is smooth, flexible and relatively small. Once you are comfortable with using one, you can start exploring the different textures and sizes that are available.

Anal Beads

Anal beads often get overlooked and are regarded as taboo. However, they are often the cheapest and easiest to use. Anal beads are made up of a series of graduating balls on a bendy chain; great for beginners who are unsure of how much they can take. When choosing your beads, look for a set with a flared base or a ring-pull which will make them easy to remove.

Anal Vibrator

Although vibrators are fun, I don’t recommend these to beginners. Anal is great, but we often have to build up to the level of penetration that a vibrator requires. Nevertheless, for those who are a little more experienced – the main attraction of a vibrator is that does all the hard work for you! Most come with different levels that regulate and adjust the vibrations, speeds and sometimes movement. Continue reading Anal Toys: A Guide

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The Importance of Safety In Kinky Play

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Spicing up your sex life often involves getting a little kinky; handcuffs, leather, whips and so forth. Such activities can be fun and super sexy, but if done incorrectly can quickly end a session or result in injury. When it comes to expanding your sexual repertoire; talk, talk and talk some more. You should both be on the same page and feel comfortable with what’s about to place. Continue reading The Importance of Safety In Kinky Play

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The Kinky Guide To Spanking

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When it comes to spanking, many of us approach it with mixed feelings. We want to try it; it’s the ultimate kinky foreplay and is a sure way to spice things up in the bedroom. However, some struggle with the idea of ‘hitting’ their other half and potentially causing them pain. Spanking can seem a little daunting at first, but if you use the right technique, it can also make your sex life far more exciting. Continue reading The Kinky Guide To Spanking

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Time For Some Role-Play!

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When it comes to role-playing, it doesn’t have to be French Maid or Cops and Robbers. What makes role-playing so attractive and exciting is that you and your partner get to be anyone you want, and as inhibitions slowly decrease you will begin discussing and exploring each other’s fantasies. Role-play could be the kinky element that’s missing from what may otherwise be a very enriching sex life – so, why not give it a go!? Continue reading Time For Some Role-Play!

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The Growing Interest in Cosplay Sex

Uniforms have, for many years, been a major staple of the Irish kinky scene. Sexy ladies in nurses uniforms or French maids outfit’s have for a long time got guy’s pulses racing, causing a real explosion in the bedroom.

It is no surprise then that, as peoples interests change, the love of uniform sex has developed and become even more popular. This is the case with ‘cosplay’, and as a result, ‘cosplay sex’.

Cosplay, for those who don’t know, is an activity where participants wear costumes or accessories to represent a specific character or idea from a work of fiction. There is a section of the ‘cosplay community’ who concentrate on characters with sex appeal. Consequently, how can that fail to become a source of much fun?

Many Different Genres

The favourite genres for cosplay are manga, anime, comic books, video games and films. This may create a perception that people who do this kind of stuff are ‘nerds’. However, when you think about it, look at the popularity of the superhero movies such as ‘Batman’ and ‘Superman’, are they really minority interests? Of course not; geek is the new cool.

Originally a Japanese phenomenon, cosplay has become increasingly popular in the United States, where the San Diego Comic-Con is the largest convention for fans of the genre. The largest in Britain is the London MCM Expo, whilst the biggest one in Europe is the Japan Expo in Paris.

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But as we said before, it didn’t take long for this whole scene to take on a kinky sexual nature. It is no surprise really, considering that for years men have lusted after cartoon characters such as Wilma Flintstone or Jessica Rabbit. Guys always wished they were real, so in the end, is it any surprise that they would be excited by a hot young woman in a sexy cosplay outfit? I am only surprised it has taken so long to catch on.

For men there are costumes that can express their masculinity, such as Superman or the Incredible Hulk. A muscly guy can get many a woman horny, especially if he is playing a strong character. In the bedroom however, neither partner needs to be a supermodel or Mr Universe, due to the fact that the fantasy is the important thing, not the reality.

Obviously like any other sexual interests, the porn industry has grasped onto the cosplay culture, with many scenes featuring cosplay sex. As with all these things, it is a big circle; The more people see it in porn, the more it will give them ideas in the bedroom.

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The Rise in Interest of Kinky Gear

Here at Kinky.co.uk, we have seen how more and more people have become interested in the kinky lifestyle. With so much demand for bondage gear and vibrators, it is apparent that people are moving away from more conventional sex into more exciting encounters. An interest in cosplay sex, and uniform sex in general is a natural step as people spice up their adult fun.

So next time you see a girl who is into her Japanese cartoons, or is obsessed with superhero movies, just thing what fun you could be having in the bedroom. Cosplay certainly has a lot to offer for all you lovers out there!

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Five Ways Women Can Take Control in Bed

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We all know that Kinky sex is becoming more and more popular as time goes by. What once was seen as a little strange is now part of the make up of every day couples sex lives.

One of the reasons for this is the fact that in certain situations, it gives women more control than they would traditionally have had in the bedroom.

Here, courtesy of Kinky.co.uk, is a list of five things that women can do to really show their man who is boss in the sack. Some you may know, but have you ever really tried them out? Here goes.

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1) Costume Sex

This can be great. The beauty of costume sex is that the one in the costume is usually in a position of authority. It doesn’t matter if its a nurse, police officer.or any other kind of uniform, it gives the lady that chance to make the first move and have complete control.

It is certainly a lot of fun.

2) Talk Dirty

This will really get the man going, especially if he is not used to it. The lady should tell him EXACTLY what she wants him to do to her. The dirtier the talk the better. This will certainly get him really revved up, and the results will be explosive.

3) Tie the Guy Up

This is a good one as it really does make sure he has no control whatsoever. Get his hands tied up to each of the top bed railings. You don’t need to make the restraints too tight, just enough to make sure he can’t move his hands. The woman can then let her hands roam his body, whilst he is unable to touch hers.

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4) Blindfold Him

This is another way the woman can take control in bed. By taking away his visual, the guy will have no idea whatsoever what the woman is about to do next. This can even be incorporated into the restraining game mentioned before.

5) Spanking

If you are new to spanking, you might not realise that it doesn’t have to be a case of the man having to bend over and get spanked by a some sort of Dominatrix. Spanking can become part of what you would consider ‘normal sex’.

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Whilst in the missionary position the lady can start to slapping the guys bottom. She should do it softly in the beginning, and then increase the power as he gets closer to the finish.

Get Bondage Gear from Kinky

Obviously if you want to start bringing bondage into your bedroom play it is important to get the right stuff. Here at Kinky.co.uk we a comprehensive inventory of bondage equipment of all prices.

So if you are a lady looking to take control in the bedroom, or a guy wanting to give his girlfriend a few not so subtle ideas, then you know exactly where to come.