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Posted on May 25, 2018June 1, 2018 by Michelle — Leave a comment

A Beginner’s Guide To Safe BDSM

So, you’ve decided to come over to the dark side, but you’re not quite sure how to practice safe sadism?

Before the bondage begins, there are some important decisions that need to be made. Planning and communication are key: without it you could easily cross the line between consensual and non-consensual, potentially acting out a harmful or dangerous scene and breaking the trust between you and your partner. You should always make sure that you are both on the same page and feel comfortable with what’s about to place. Continue reading A Beginner’s Guide To Safe BDSM

Posted on April 20, 2018April 27, 2018 by Michelle — Leave a comment

Four Top Tips For Sub Drops

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Sub Drop is an emotional state that a sub can experience after a BDSM scene. The symptoms and intensity vary from person to person, but can include fatigue, feeling emotionally raw, and depression. Concluding a scene with aftercare and understanding how to deal with sup drop are both important parts of practicing BDSM. There’s no ‘one size fits all’ approach – some need time to reflect while others may need extra affection and attention – so talk to your partner and figure out what will help you both return to an everyday state of mental, emotional, and physical steadiness. Continue reading Four Top Tips For Sub Drops

Posted on February 23, 2018March 2, 2018 by Michelle — Leave a comment

Four Steps To Choosing Bondage Restraints

Not easily roped into bondage? Knot sure how you feel about being tied down?

Bondage can be kinky, fun, and a great way to spice things up in the bedroom. The act of restraining your partner can offer new physical experiences and an intensified emotional connection. Continue reading Four Steps To Choosing Bondage Restraints

Posted on September 1, 2017September 9, 2017 by Michelle — Leave a comment

A Beginner’s Guide To Sexual Domination

Dominance and Submission (D/s) is an alternative relationship in which a top or dom controls the actions, emotions, and will of the bottom, or sub. A D/s relationship consists of two people who are mutually consenting adults who agree on a direction for their relationship. They agree that one of the partners will take the dominant, controlling role, and the other partner, the submissive, controlled role. Continue reading A Beginner’s Guide To Sexual Domination

Posted on July 21, 2017July 28, 2017 by Michelle — Leave a comment

How to Prevent BDSM Accidents

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Thanks to ‘Fifty Shades of Grey’ we are seeing an increase in BDSM. This has led to an increase in the amount of accidents happening in the bedroom; from nerve damage to broken bones. This is likely to be linked to the lack of care and knowledge of the equipment used and the individual they are tying. Continue reading How to Prevent BDSM Accidents

Posted on May 12, 2017May 19, 2017 by Michelle — Leave a comment

Mummification – A Beginner’s Guide

Mummification is not just a source of folklore and horror movies. Within a BDSM and bondage context, mummification is a specialised form of bondage in which an individual is completely immobilised. They can be wrapped in a variety of materials, from cling film to body bags to the more traditional bandages. Some enjoy being left for a period of time in a state of sensory deprivation, while others enjoy being sensually stimulated in their state of bondage – it really depends on the preferences of the individual. Continue reading Mummification – A Beginner’s Guide

Posted on May 5, 2017May 12, 2017 by Michelle — Leave a comment

A Beginners Guide to Bondage Kits

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Bondage can be kinky, fun, and a great way to spice things up in the bedroom. The act of restraining your partner offers new physical experiences and an intensified emotional connection. So, it’s no surprise that it is fast becoming one of the most popular ways for couples to spice up their sex lives and explore their naughty side! Continue reading A Beginners Guide to Bondage Kits

Posted on April 7, 2017April 14, 2017 by Michelle — Leave a comment

Vegan-Friendly BDSM: Toys for Cruelty-Free Fun

Sex toys are becoming increasingly popular, as more and more people are experimenting and introducing some kinky props into their bedrooms. There are countless products available, from vibrators and dildos to the weird and wonderful world of BDSM toys. With so much choice – no matter what your taste – there’s something for everyone. Leather is the go-to material for bondage play because it’s durable, comfortable, and sexy. What if you’re looking for a non-animal-based product? Are there alternatives? Continue reading Vegan-Friendly BDSM: Toys for Cruelty-Free Fun

Posted on February 3, 2017February 10, 2017 by Michelle — Leave a comment

Cock and Ball Torture – A Guide

If you haven’t already exited the page, cupping your balls, and sweating with fear – the chances are you have thought about, or are intrigued by, cock and ball torture (CBT). CBT can involve a variety of things used to induce mild to severe pain, or it can be used only to cause discomfort. Continue reading Cock and Ball Torture – A Guide

Posted on December 30, 2016January 6, 2017 by Michelle — Leave a comment

Is Bondage a Form of Abuse?

With 2017 just around the corner, plenty of us are thinking of the year ahead and new year’s resolutions we would like to keep. For some of us spicing up our sex lives is top of the list; from trying anal to exploring the world of BDSM, there’s something for everyone. Continue reading Is Bondage a Form of Abuse?