A bedroom staple for many, a clitoral vibrator is often considered the sex toy that guarantees zero to orgasm in under a minute.
Clitoral vibrators can really do magic for your sex play; they’re great during masturbation as they add an extra element of stimulation, but they’re also a fun form of foreplay. They come in various designs and range in speeds, including small vibrators, large wands, and toys designed to deliver suction-like sensations – so there’s something for everyone!
Don’t let the name fool you though, although they deliver mind-blowing stimulations to the clit, they can also be used on other parts of the body for added pleasure. Not sure where to start? We have some suggestions!
Over the Vulva
So, technically this includes the clitoris. But when we think of the clitoris, we often forget that there’s more to it than that little rosebud-shaped knob at the apex of our labia. In reality, that little love button is only the tip of a surprisingly complex iceberg called the internal clitoris, which extends down the labia on both sides and contains over 8000 nerve endings.
Tap into this pleasure zone by taking a small vibe like the Tiffany Love Bullet (€28.70, kinky.co.uk) and running it down either side of the labia. Alternatively, use a larger wand like the Luminate Vibrator (€45.93, kinky.co.uk) by gently pressing it against the pubic bone. Take the time to explore and find the pressure, speed, and movements that works best for you.
On the Nipples
If you and your partner are new to nipple stimulation, don’t limit yourself to copping a quick feel! Depending on your preferred methods of stimulation, you might find that a clitoral vibrator hits the spot. A vibrator that surrounds the clitoris, like the Satisfyer Pro 2 (€80.38, kinky.co.uk) could be just as fun around a nipple.
A simple, soft vibrator like the Mini Bodywand Massager (€22.96, kinky.co.uk) can be great for body massage – including the nipples. Try it out on the lowest setting first, then work your way up. Trace the vibrator in circles all around your breasts and then play with different strokes and rhythms.
On Your Partner
Sex toys don’t have to be something you use alone. They’re a fantastic way to enhance your foreplay together and amp up the intensity in the bedroom!
Weary shoulder and backs? Add a vibrating bullet to a sensual massage and roll the vibe over tired shoulders and backs to soothe away those aches and pains. Don’t expect the massage to last long, though, as you or your partner will soon be wanting to stimulate you more intimately.
You can use the vibrations to tease and tantalise your partner and create some seriously intense feelings that will really turn up the heat. They can be used as an addition to oral sex or they can replace your hands altogether!
While giving him a blowjob, you could place a simple vibrator, like Coco (€28.70, kinky.co.uk) against your cheek so he can feel your mouth humming and vibrating for a unique sensation.
Sensitivity varies from person to person but often, the most sensitive part of the penis is around the head and the underside of the shaft. So, experiment by running the clitoral vibrator along the tip of the penis, their perineum (the spot behind the scrotum) or lightly running it along the testicles. He’ll thank you for it!
For both men and women, a little anal attention is often a great way to enhance oral sex and using a bullet externally can be a comfortable and sexy way to introduce this.
Clitoral vibrators really are a diverse toy that can add intense vibrations and a lot of fun to foreplay, masturbation, and sex. It’s all about experimenting and keeping an open mind – you will soon learn how to use your vibrator in a way that works for both you and your partner.